Confidence in dating for women
But especially in dating, hoping the guy will like you, is a trap.
If you don’t think you have what it takes to find love, will a super confident person be drawn to have you in their lives as their partner?The amount of confidence you feel in any situation tells a story about your past success.If you approach dating with a negative story playing continuously in your head (I suck at this, he’s going to be bored, I’m not as pretty as the women he usually dates, I wish I had more experience), you’re more likely to have a negative experience and the person you are on that date with will feel that energy, and let me tell you what it will scream: insecurity, neediness, lack of confidence, desperate, etc. You can fake it until you make it – truly act as if you are confident (at least until you can build up the authentic stuff).A guy, looking at you during dating or relationship building, doesn’t want someone who can’t take care of themselves. Confidence isn’t about having the answers all the time, or all the winners on Jeopardy would have a long line of suitors. You have to be open, or you’re perceived as closed off, and it reads as cocky. If you close your heart in judgment (of him or you), you energetically close down, and the guy reads that as “not interested in him.”If you doubt your worth, the guy reads you as insecure.Although both genders state wanting confidence in the other person, they don’t just want an answer person. You have to have charisma or charm as you let your inner magic out. Knowing your worth is glass-half-full instead of half-empty.