When to have exclusivity talk when dating
According to the Pew Research Center, "41% of 18- to 29-year-olds in serious relationships have felt closer to their partner because of online or text message conversations."Those texts, emoji-filled as they may be, are shortcuts to intimacy.
In a small study of texting and relationships, Amanda Klein of Towson University found that, during "the early stages of a relationship or in casual dating scenarios, texting is an ideal mode of communication, as it helps reduce uncertainty and lessen anxiety," according to the That increased communication, plus the physical intimacy, is jumpstarting relationships in a way not previously seen.
Plenty of our 21st-century dating rituals are painfully drawn out.
They officially declare themselves a couple after nine dates, on average.
Intimacy on fast-forward: Six dates might not seem like enough to build intimacy, much less prompt an exclusivity conversation.
But depending how physical those dates get, they can.
That means after six short dates, 20-somethings are bound to have kissed, had sex multiple times and spent cumulatively an entire day with the person they're just beginning to date.
Think of how many of the 36 questions they could ask in that time.